Going to the Westside...

So we are headed to the other side of the mountains for Easter again this year. In all honesty we were not going to. I sort of wanted to just lay low, have a kind of relaxed kind of thing. But then hubby mentioned he wanted to go see the new nephew anyways so we decided to go. I actually was not really even looking forward to it until recently because of certain person in my family that has been continously mean and rude, not only to me but about the adoption in general. I have been praying about what to do with this person. I love her, but right now I can't stand her. And here is what I believe God wants from me... Kindness and honesty. I have been honest with her before but it was via phone and I don't think that she HEARD. Or maybe she did and she just doesn't care. But her birthday is around the corner and I will give her a present and honest look into how she makes me feel and then let that be it. If I tell her what her harm is against me, I don't get the right to be mad about it anymore. It is her choice to keep doing it, or not. If she does, I know I have done what I can do and I can just pray for her and the situation I am in. I do pray she will get it though. And maybe she thinks I have harmed her. So I will be ready to listen to her.
Please pray that this goes well. This is not an easy thing. I really want to be done with this situation. Just steer clear of this person.