I wish I could find a way to express everything to sweet sister, help her understand that we are not trying to take her away. Just add. We were given the gift of another daughter and we take that seriously, we would love for her to feel cozy too. 14 is such a hard age and had her momma been able to get it together she would have been a good mom. I can understand that she must mourn for that loss.
I started this post the first day that they were here.i felt that the weekend went well. But at the same time like I was kind of walking on egg shells. Plus little miss was acting just odd. Like she was trying to show off or something. Not being her normal self. It was very weird. I was glad to have this time with both girls so that big sister could see that we are just a normal home. Not trying to steal anything away from her or first mom, just moving forward. By the end of the visit, while I was happy with it, I feel as though big sis is still desperately trying to hold on to her fragmented family. I get that. Heck I might even do the same if in her situation. I just hope at she can eventually realize that we are a family too.
Then it happen... First mom had her 4th baby, causing even more drama. As always she will have the chance to raise this one. Each child is treated as a different case. I hope for her, that she is clean. She deserves a chance at a happy life and I hope she gets it. But that will be up to her, she needs to make better choices in her life.
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